Sometimes, you can't be everything you want to be for others. No matter how hard you want to or try to. For me, that is extremely difficult. I have this character trait (perhaps a flaw at times) that almost overpowers me. I want to be there for people because I don't want someone to feel like they don't have a person there for them. I want to help people. I don't want to solve their problems; rather, I just want to do something that lightens the load.